dijous, 19 de febrer del 2015

NO STRINGS ATTACHED


I like this love movie. No Strings Attached is a 2011 American romantic comedy film directed by Ivan Reitman and starring Natalie Portman and Ashton Kutcher. Written by Elizabeth Meriwether, the film is about two friends who decide to make a pact to have "no strings attached"casual sex without falling in love with each other. The film was released in the United States and Canada on January 21, 2011. That film have three types of love. The first type of love that we can see in the film is Eros. Then in the end of the film the Eros love become Agape. Because there relacionship begin with sex, but finally they fall in love. Also in the start of the film you can see Ludus love. But that begin like a game ends like a true love. 

dijous, 5 de febrer del 2015

Through others, we become ourselve



TV, movies and a lot of other forms of media show us, in some way, “how to be”. We continuously see role models, healthy or not, that condition teenegers way to act and be. The people are very influencing for another people. Some times the people do wrong things because they think that they are more cool. Like when some teens' stole anything only for be more cool on them grup of friend. I think that it's very sad, because a lot of people don't do what they want, they do what the another people want. So a few people are them self. The other people are following models and they can't be themselfs only because they're scaring that themself don't fit with this society. That influence can be negative, for exemple, this society love the thin girls and the fat girl, sometimes do stupid things like be sick or cut off. And the people say poor girl or something like that but never do something to help her. To be honest, I think that the society have to change or the world can be a hell.

LOVE STYLES

  • Eros – is a passionate physical and emotional love of wanting to satisfy, create sexual contentment, security and aesthetic enjoyment for each other, it also includes creating sexual security for the other by striving to forsake options of sharing one's intimate and sexual self with outsiders.
  • Ludus – This style is used by those who see love as a game and want to "win" as many partners as possible. The focus is on having fun in the moment and therefore relationships of this sort tend to be very short.
  • Storge – This style of love grows slowly out of friendship and is based more on similar interests and a commitment to one another rather than on passion.
  • Pragma – This love style is very practical and realistic. People who prefer this style approach their relationship in a "business-like" fashion and look for partners with whom they can share common goals.
  • Mania – This style usually flows out of low self-esteem and a need to be loved by one's partner. Lovers of this sort usually become very possessive and jealous.
  • Agape – In this style of love, the individual is willing to sacrifice anything for their partner. It is based on an unbreakable commitment and an unconditional, selfless loveThe Types of Love are explained.  The Agape is the highest form of love however culture continues to seek self gratification instead of selflessness.